AFTER THE LIFE
END-OF-LIFE EVENTS
you want a physicist at your funeral (NPR)
“Commentator Aaron Freeman isn't a person who does much planning ahead. However, if you like to look ahead to the future, he has some advice for you, advice on planning your funeral.”
cake: nine different types of funerals and memorial services (article)
While Cake’s thing is to encourage you to consider your own end-of-life preferences, you can use this to inform that same for your elders.
EXECUTORS & 'TRIXES
cake: checklist - what an executor does (and doesn’t) do after death (article)
“It’s important that you understand what an executor must do (and not do) before you agree to be an executor. Once you agree to serve as an executor and the court approves, you cannot withdraw from your responsibilities unless the court gives you permission. You cannot do anything as executor until the person or people who named you in their will (the “testator”) dies. However, if you know that the testator named you in the will, it would be wise to discuss with the testator what your responsibilities as the executor of their estate might be. The more you know and understand what the testator wants and what property you will have to probate, it will make your job as executor a little easier.”
the executor’s guide: settling a loved one’s estate or trust (book)
“If you need to wrap up the affairs of a loved one who has died, you may feel overwhelmed—especially when you're grieving. But you can do it, and this book will show you how.”